It is the people that transform you.

Paul Janka

Paul rose to international fame in the mid 2000s when he appeared on Dr. Phil, The Today Show, Fox News, MSNBC, and the Tyra Banks Show, becoming one of the most famous and infamous names in the dating world. A Harvard physics graduate, serial entrepreneur, former hedge fund analyst, and Hollywood insider, he has sold hundreds of thousands of books and products on male psychology, human interaction, and seduction. His work has reached over a million men worldwide.

Today, Paul works as a high stakes decision coach, helping men navigate the choices that define their lives. But here is what makes him invaluable to Gravitor. He has done what very few men in this space have ever done. He walked away from the game, settled into a successful marriage, became a father, and built a life on the other side. He knows exactly how to help men who want more than just dates. Men who want to find the right woman, build something real, and keep it alive long after the honeymoon ends.

James Tusk

A former high-flying law professional in London, James had the career, the travel, the social circle, the gym, and all the markers of an attractive life. And still could not crack the one thing that mattered most. That personal experience is precisely what makes him so effective with the men he works with today.

Programme Director of The Asia Experience, Gravitor's flagship luxury transformation week across Thailand and South Korea. He has spent the last eight years running live coaching programmes in 23 countries across the world, working with busy entrepreneurs and professionals who want to meet genuinely attractive women in the reality of everyday life. No apps. No expensive nightclubs. No performance. Just the confidence to walk up to a woman you find genuinely attractive in the middle of an ordinary day, be yourself, and know exactly what to do next.

Emma

She will not hand you a list of jokes. She breaks down the nuances of comedy, humour, timing, and delivery, the actual mechanics of what makes a woman laugh so hard she forgets to play it cool. She identifies your natural comedic traits, intensifies them, and hones them with solid, repeatable technique.

A trained actress, improviser, and stand up comedian with successful one woman shows and a strong background writing and performing comedy on TV and stage. She has been coaching since 2015, is trained in CBT and NLP with a deep understanding of masculine trauma, and has spent hundreds of hours as a practical field coach in both daytime and nighttime environments. She knows every pitfall and exactly what happens in the real moments that matter.

James Lavoe

One of the most gifted voice coaches working globally, and one of the world's leading ASMR boyfriend artists on YouTube with a huge following. Women pay to hear his voice. They have never seen his face. Think about what that tells you. It is not just vocal quality. James understands the full spectrum of emotive, romantic, and erotic language, how to bring out a man's sensitive, vulnerable side and his strong, masculine side in balance. So you can be authentically charming, romantic, and powerful without performing any of it.

Many of our clients are analytical thinkers, engineers and professionals who live in their heads. James connects them back to their emotions, practically and psychologically, so their voice stops being something they hide behind and becomes their most powerful tool. He is also uniquely experienced in working with shame, intimacy blocks, and communication trauma, the things that make a man's voice shrink or disappear in the moments that matter most.

Ashley

One of the few coaches in this space who has spent over a decade working with both men and women, and that dual perspective means nothing gets past him. He knows what women notice, what they test for, and what makes them stay.

He started as a student. Went through the process himself. Twelve years later, he is a trained actor, experienced in cognitive reframing and inner game, completely at home in nightlife and live social environments, and one of the most naturally empathetic coaches on the team. He has coached privately and in groups across the UK, Europe, and the USA with clients aged 18 to 80.

Hamied

A BACP registered psychotherapist and ICF accredited high performance coach with over five years working specifically with men in this space. When intensive coaching brings up anxiety, old patterns, or psychological resistance, he is the one who helps you regulate, reframe, and keep moving forward. Not from the sidelines. With active strategies, in real time.

Before this, he built a career most coaches can only read about. Executive MBA from London Business School. Twenty years in international business. Trained as a lawyer in mediation and conflict resolution. He has led teams under extreme pressure, then retrained in psychotherapy because he realised the real work was always about people.

Felipe

Felipe does not try to turn you into the Tinder Swindler. He takes a completely authentic approach, elevating your most natural self and helping you develop and build a lifestyle that genuinely attracts the right people. Too many men obsess over techniques and tricks when the real shift comes from actually becoming more attractive, not performing it.

Working closely alongside founder Peter Mac, Felipe goes deep on building lifestyle, social circles, connections, access, and travel. He is also a business coach, helping men earn more and elevate the areas of their life that feed directly into who they are and how they show up.

Sasha Sage

Sasha brings something no one else on the team can. As a Slavic woman, she offers a genuine insider perspective on Eastern European femininity, the cultural nuances, the expectations, and the dynamics that Western men often misread entirely.

Luke

Luke works at the intersection of behavioural change, personal development, and high level private coaching. With a background spanning coaching, education, and deep one to one work, he brings a rare combination of psychological precision, calm authority, and practical depth.

He is known for helping clients identify the hidden structures driving anxiety, self sabotage, indecision, and repeated dissatisfaction, then replacing them with clearer thinking, stronger self command, and deliberate action.

Daniel

He has spent years coaching at the highest levels of professional golf, working with CEOs, executives, and elite performers who are exceptional in every area of their life except one. That gap, between who a man is in a boardroom and who he is in front of a woman he wants, is where Daniel does his best work.

He has coached extensively across the UK, the US, and Asia, and his sessions rarely take place in a classroom. You are more likely to find him on a rooftop bar in the City, inside a members club, or at a high-end networking event, because that is where the real growth happens. Real environments, real conversations, real results.

Scott

As a fully qualified hypnotist, yoga teacher, and tantra facilitator, he works at a level that goes far deeper than technique. His focus is the subconscious, the ingrained patterns, beliefs, and blockages that sit beneath the surface and quietly sabotage a man's confidence long before he opens his mouth. Scott dismantles those patterns and replaces them with something far more solid.

His background in tantric practice gives him a rare and honest perspective on masculine energy, one that is grounded, embodied, and completely free of the shame or confusion that holds most men back in this area. He helps men reconnect with their natural drive, move through interactions with genuine ease, and escalate with confidence rather than anxiety.

Georgios

What he has learned is that the challenges are almost always the same underneath, regardless of who is sitting in front of him. Confidence. Connection. The quiet belief that things can be different.

That breadth is not a coincidence. Georgios brings 30 years in the media industry alongside a coaching framework recognised against NHS standards, which means his work is both instinctive and rigorous. He knows how to read a person quickly, get to the real issue, and help them move through it.

James Taylor

With over two decades at the heart of the dating coaching industry, James has been behind some of its most significant moments. He began as Richard La Ruina's programme director, has collaborated with many of the world's most respected coaches, and has personally overseen the transformations of thousands of men across that time. He does not just understand this industry. He helped shape it.

What James brings to Gravitor is rare. It is not simply experience, it is perspective. He has seen every approach, every method, every promise, and he knows precisely what actually works and what does not. That clarity is what his clients get from day one.